Tag: intentions

  • My latest rejection letter

    I applied for a writing fellowship in New York that I was super duper excited about. I prayed about it, journaled about it, envisioned it for myself, made it my screensaver on my laptop, claimed it, had sista-friends pray about it, and this was the response: Many and plenty of…

  • Cut my hair, deleted my manuscript, and tossed my pantry. Starting over.

    I guess it started with my new haircut. I didn’t intentionally go in there to walk out with three inches of hair, but it happened. Asked for one thing and got another. I’m rocking it though and actually beginning to love it more everyday.  Got an email one day that…

  • 5 steps to manage your feelings when they’re in the way of your work

    And as much as you’d love to, you can’t pack a bag and get away right now. You have bills, deadlines, and a whole heap of shit that need be done, yet your feelings are like the world’s greatest defense player right now. Wherever you go, there they are. Try…

  • Taking the ugh out of strategy to move beyond mediocrity

    Knowing how you operate and working with it (as opposed to working around it) is everything you need to move beyond mediocrity. You have to remove judgement in order to do that, however. I used to feel bad about hardly ever being able to finish what I started. Some stuff, I…

  • How to determine if it’s an interest or an intention

    I’m interested in replacing all products in my home with the natural version. Having original artwork on the walls. Finishing my book. Decorating my laundry room. Going to DC this year. Selling 200 books this month. Being published in a bomb ass magazine. Hosting a writer’s retreat. Trying the 21-day…