Author: Trelani

  • Tips, Trends, and Truth about Money

    Tips, Trends, and Truth about Money

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    “Anyone who has ever struggled with poverty knows how extremely expensive it is to be poor.”—James Baldwin Little known fact about me: I’m the money nerd in my closest circle. I definitely don’t make the most, but I’m the best self-manager of it, and I’m always reading or listening to financial…

  • 1 Parable, 2 Testimonies, 3 Quotes

    1 Parable, 2 Testimonies, 3 Quotes

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    1 Parable:  “The Farmer’s Luck” An old farmer’s horse runs away, so he can’t work his crops. The neighbors say: “Such bad luck!” The farmer says, “Maybe.” The horse comes back, bringing with 3 wild horses with it. The neighbors say, “Such good luck!” The farmer says, “Maybe.” The farmer’s…

  • We Got Stood Up. What Had Happened Was…

    We Got Stood Up. What Had Happened Was…

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    “When women walk, they talk, and when they talk, they solve problems.” —My friend and GirlTrek co-founder, Morgan Dixon My friend Crystal invited me to an early morning poolside yoga event. Woke up at 5 something, giving me about 45 minutes to be in the car if I still planned to…

  • Things I’ve Been Thinking About Lately: Waxing On and Off

    Things I’ve Been Thinking About Lately: Waxing On and Off

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    “I live by the beat like you live check-to-check. If it don’t move your feet, then I don’t eat, so we like neck-to-neck.” —Andre 3000 Rap fans had been waiting on Andre 3000 to drop a new album for YEARS. When he finally did, it was flute instrumentals. Niggas was…

  • Got Me Looking Ridiculous, But It’s All Good

    Got Me Looking Ridiculous, But It’s All Good

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    “Every day won’t feel like awe,” I said to myself out loud.  My day was starting off ROUGH. One thing after the other. Headed to TJ Maxx to find a dress for my untamed women performance lecture the next day. Realized I was 30 minutes too early. They hadn’t opened…